In South Florida, many marriages and relationships are heading south or have already been deemed irreconcilable because of finances and often due to foreclosure. Most people who are wondering “how to get my ex back” are drama queens who drove the person off in the first place by being too controlling, emotional or needy in the first place. The first thing you need to do is get a grip on emotions such as jealousy, possessiveness and being territorial. These are the emotions that can have an ex deciding to stay away for good.
Instead of floundering when you think about “how to get my ex back” try instead to think about how you can improve yourself. Make it your goal to develop a No Drama policy. You want to do this because too much emotional drama is an energy drainer and it detracts from you getting back with your ex or moving on with someone new. It is simply stressful and bad for your emotional health.
Not only should you take control of your own tendencies towards creating unnecessary dramas you should also make sure that your ex can’t create drama either. Tell your ex you have a zero tolerance for drama now and that you have developed that with the goal of the two of you being together again. Refuse to speak to your ex if they cannot behave in a calm and civilized manner.
To put it succinctly, drama equals emotional blackmail. Every time you give in to it you are letting your ex known that the toxic behavior that separated you in the first place is okay.
Your best way to deal with a drama queen (male or female) is to simply not acknowledge her. Be powerfully silent and indifferent. Refuse to engage! He or she will probably be enraged and you may have to cut him or her off for a while but that is good. You want him or her wondering “how to get my ex back” and not the other way around.
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